Would you adopt? Would you if it did not cost so much money? Would you if you did not have to answer questions about them being "your own" or about your sex life and it's ability to produce a child? Would you adopt if you were not afraid of what your family or friends would think? Would you adopt if you knew they would be "normal"? Would you adopt if it was easy? Would you adopt a toddler or older child if you were not worried they had trauma in the past....that they wouldn't affect your 'own' kids? Would you adopt if you were not afraid?
Take moment. Would you?